All posts by Binil Varghese

east indian mallu, tech-fanatic, motorcycle wanderer, adventure junkie, music ninja, solution finder, dog person, extreme foodie, responsibly reckless

Is it Love ? or Is it ?

I know I don talk about this subject a lot, but I am still perplexed over the fact that so many people waste sex. Yes, they are wasting sex. They’re having sex without having any affection for the person they are doing it with. In the past you’d have sex after marriage, or at least after a long time of being in a relationship. Now a days everybody has sex all the time, everywhere, with everyone. There is no time to get to know each other, let alone the time needed to find a person you could fall in love with. And I know it takes a very, very long time. I’m have been searching and no, while searching I am not having sex with women who just happen to come by. When I have sex it has to mean something. Ok, ok, I admit I have made out with some random (but very VERY cute) women, but as soon as she took my shirt off I was like “Ehmm, this is all very nice but we stay away from third base.” It’s just not meant for me to have meaningless sex, I’m not lust, I am love. And as messed up as my life is I need to believe that that kind of real love exists, because if that ceases the world will be one big shallow place, the world will keep moving faster and faster, we will fill our needs with some casual sex and that’s it. We will only care about money, sex and may be no family. And then I will be sure I will never find happiness. When real love happens it’s like a sign, a sign the world is still a good place, where the sky can be blue and it won’t rain until it’s necessary. ‘Cause sometimes a little rain is needed, it will make us appreciate the sun and not taking it for granted.

So what is so great about lust? About meeting some random person in a club, ending up in bed together, having the most awkward moments the next morning and then say goodbye like nothing ever happened? Is this sex better? You know that’s not true, sex with feeling is way better than sex without. Sex without feelings, is only having sex with your genitals, might as well jerk off. Sex with feelings is sex with your body, your mind and your soul. It’s not about quantity, it’s about quality and it’s time everybody starts realizing that. Luckily I’m here to spread the word ;).

Time to realise . . .

There used to be a time,
When you were always there,
But now it’s time to realize,
But the pain, i cannot bear.

The day you told me you were leaving,
I didn’t no what to do,
Whether to scream, cry or shout,
I didn’t know how to live life without you.

Some pain can’t be released through tears,
And there’s a point when blood,
Doesn’t do much for you either,
I felt stuck, in an emotional flood.

But i didn’t want to disappoint you,
Or let you down,
So as long as your happy,
I shall no longer frown.

All along you’ve been my angel,
There’s never been a day,
When i haven’t turned to you,
But now your going, far, far away.

But just now i thought I’d tell you,
That from now on,
I will always be with you,
In soul and spirit, even when your gone.

There comes a time, in everyone’s life,
A time to realize,
I think i just have,so for me,
Stay strong, happy and wise . . .

You came & stayed in the end of my dreams . . .

Suddenly in a moment
Tiny rain drops started to fall
Roses began to bloom
You came & stayed in the end of my dreams

Rainbows came to skies..
Colored all clouds one by one
Swept away cruel sun rays
You came & stayed in the end of my dreams

Deep sea began to shine as pearls
Beach started to shine as gold
Skies covered with pinky clouds
You came & stayed in the end of my dreams

Do not wake up me ,I want to stay in dreams
You stay in my eyes I will keep close my eyes
let nobody to see you.. promise..

You came & stayed in the end of my dreams . . .

One Way LOVE . . .

A one way love can never thrive;
It needs reciprocation.
And so, in order to survive
My love needs affrmation.

So throw your caution to the sky,
And let your heart command.
You’ll find that it will not deny
A love which must expand.

Come now, to me with your love in my heart
And sweep away all my sorrow ,
To love me and feel my sadness ,
Love me in ur heart and make my love complete . . .

Start Again

How often we wish for another chance to make a fresh beginning.
A chance to blot out our mistakes and change failure into winning.

It does not take a special time to make a brand new start.
It only takes the deep desire to try with all our heart.

To live a little better, to always be forgiving.
To add a little sunshine in a world for which we’re living.

Never give up in despair nor think you are through.
For there’s always a tomorrow, A chance to start a new.

Sweetest Memory . . .

Calm & deep sea was smiling
As bunch of tiny white roses
Your eyes were so shining
Still I am feeling the sweetness

Your arms were around me
Eyes were lovingly on mine
Every minute were so free
Still I am feeling your touch

Stars were hiding in your eyes
Wind was perfumed with your breath
Still your whispers are around my ears
Promise Your smiles brought heaven to my heart

You were singing while holding me so closely
Still those songs are sleeping in my ears
You took me in to a paradise that I will never forget
You swept softly by kisses all my tears

You kept all your shape look all your sweet smiles
In my heart so safely forever & have gone so far
This is the happiest & sweetest moment in my life
As sweetest as you who I met once in my whole life . . .

in the end of it all … it was only a dream